Change My Relationship

Why Does the Narcissist Call You a Narcissist?

If you are in a relationship with a person who is a narcissist, you have probably been accused by that person of being a narcissist yourself. This is likely confusing to you because you aren't anything like the narcissist and don't understand how that person can be that deep in denial that they blame and project their own traits onto you. Watch this video to answer the question: Why does the narcissist call you a narcissist? #narcissism #narcissiticabuse

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How to Detach and Stay Engaged in the Relationship

Do you know how to detach and stay engaged in the relationship? Most people don't. Detachment means disinterest, indifference, abandonment, numbness, or denial to them, but that isn't the only way. It is possible to stay involved while living your own life. Watch this video to learn how.

 

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Four Misbeliefs That Fuel False Guilt in Codependency

This video identifies and corrects four misbeliefs that fuel false guilt in codependency. Codependents have many characteristics: one is that they feel overly responsible for other people, accept blame for others' choices, and have trouble saying no. Watch this video to identify the four misbeliefs driving false guilt. #christianboundaries #boundaries #boundariesinrelationships #falseguilt #christianrelationships 

 

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Can a Suicide Threat Be Manipulative?

Can a suicide threat be manipulative? Suicide threats are serious and need to be taken seriously. However, when you are dealing with a difficult person who uses the threat of suicide to manipulate you, you must recognize it. Watch this video to learn how to differentiate between a real threat and a manipulative one. #christianrelationships #dysfunctionalrelationship 

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Searching for Magic Words to Change People

Have you found yourself searching for magic words to change people because they are doing things that hurt you, themselves, or others? If you struggle with codependency, you likely feel a compulsive need to try to figure out the right words to get them to understand your concerns. If you've ever searched in desperation to figure out the right words, watch this video.

 

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I Have Two Homeless Sons

Claire describes her two sons' childhoods and their introduction to drugs and how this along with mental illness in the youngest led to having to ask them to leave her home. She describes the guilt, shame, fear, anger, and physical health problems that she experienced over their demands, abuse, and homelessness. She shares the tools she learned in Karla Downing's classes and from the National Alliance of Mental Illness.  

 

National Alliance of Mental Illness NAMI.org

 

Transforming Difficult Relationships Class  https://www.changemyrelationship.com/transforming-difficult-relationships-class/

"When Love Hurts: 10 Principles to Transform Difficult Relationships" https://www.changemyrelationship.com/when-love-hurts-10-principles-to-transform-difficult-relationships/

"Change My Relationship: 365 Daily Devotions for Christians in Difficult Relationships" https://www.changemyrelationship.com/change-my-relationship-365-daily-devotions-for-christians-in-difficult-relationships/

 

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Face Your Fears Before You Set a Boundary

Face your fears before you set a boundary. Because setting limits is a risk, it isn't easy, especially in difficult relationships where you will get pushback. When you do, you have to stand firm; if you haven't faced your fears first, you will have trouble doing that. You can have strong boundaries once you have faced your fears.

 

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Navigating a Marital Separation

Navigating a marital separation carefully is critical in maximizing the chances that there will be the necessary changes that will allow you to reunite. If it isn't done correctly, marital separation can actually be a step toward divorce and make it harder to get back together. Listen to this podcast before you navigate a marital separation.

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Do You Know the Dance of Intimacy?

Do you know the dance of intimacy? Healthy relationships have mutual interactions where both people make moves that bring them closer together. Unhealthy relationships lack these skills and as a result, they often move further apart. 

You can assess how well you do each of these things in your relationships. You can also assess how well the other person does them to recognize the potential for growth in your relationship. 

Dysfunctional relationships are confusing. Learning how to identify unhealthy patterns will help you make sense of them.

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Do Something Different If What You're Doing Isn't Working

Insanity is doing the same thing over and over expecting different results. So why do we keep on doing the same thing if we know better? The answer is that we don't know what else to do. What we are doing makes sense because it is familiar and makes us feel less anxious. Figuring out what else to do is often overwhelming and complicated. But what if the answer was simple--just do something different. Anything except what you are doing and quite possibly the opposite.

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