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How to Listen to Your Adult Child's Hurt From You

Parenting is a difficult job. We do it because we love our children. None of us plan to hurt them. It never occurs to us that our children will end up criticizing our efforts and harboring resentments. But when they do, we must handle it the right way. Do you know how to listen to your adult child's hurt from you? If you don't, you will likely make things worse by reacting the wrong way. It is never easy to hear your adult child's perceptions of the things you've done to cause pain and hurt--even when you want to listen. It is easy to feel fearful and attacked and get defensive, but this guarantees there won't be any healing. Watch this video to prepare yourself to listen to your adult child's hurt from you. #healing #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyrelationships 

 

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I Live with Chronic Illness

According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Office on Women's Health, autoimmune diseases affect more than 23.5 million people in the U.S. and are more common in women than in men. Wendy shares her story of what it is like to live with her chronic illnesses, rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. She openly shares the impact on her life, marriage, and mental health along with the lessons she has learned to cope that give her hope. Whether you have a chronic illness, are a caregiver for someone who does, or simply want to learn more about how chronic illness impacts so many of those around you, you will benefit from listening to Wendy's courageous story.

 

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Dealing with Boundary Busters

Dealing with boundary busters isn't easy unless you have strong boundaries and are aware of their tactics. They can't make your boundaries ineffective if you understand how to set boundaries that cannot be busted. Watch this video to learn how to do that. #boundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #christianboundaries #boundarybuster

 

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Dealing with People Who Always Have to Be Right

Dealing with people who always have to be right isn't easy. There isn't any way to convince them that you have a valid different opinion and it can make you livid to let them get away with thinking you agree with them. So what do you do with them? Watch this video to find out. #dysfunctionalrelationship #understandingrelationships #greyrock #boundaries #christianboundaries

 

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Fear of Repercussions When Speaking Your Truth and Setting Boundaries

Fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries is a natural feeling when you are in a dysfunctional relationship. It makes sense to be worried about a backlash when you know you are likely to get one that is uncomfortable or even abusive. Difficult, toxic, and dysfunctional people do not like it when you stand up to them. They will do whatever they have to so you will back down from your boundary and abandon your truth. Watch this video to learn how to deal with the fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries so you can stand strong.#speakingtruth #settingboundaries #christianboundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship 

 

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How to Be Emotionally Intelligent and Teach Your Children to Be Emotionally Intelligent

In this presentation, Karla Downing provides the steps that are necessary to intelligently handle emotions. She challenges the beliefs we have about feelings, especially in the Church, and helps the listener to view emotions simply and practically. She also addresses how to teach your children to be emotionally intelligent. This is an invaluable talk that can make profound changes in your life, your family, and your marriage. Listen to it and talk about it to challenge your beliefs about emotions.     

 

Handout:  https://karladowningresources.files.wordpress.com/2024/04/how-to-be-emotionally-intelligent-and-teach-your-children-to-be-emotionally-intelligent.pdf

 

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Christian Codependency: Should You Help or Not When Someone Asks?

Do you struggle with Christian codependency? Are you a people pleaser? Do you feel guilty when you say no? If you said yes because you believe God wants you to say yes, you need to know how to make a healthy decision as to whether you should help or not when someone asks. Watch this video to learn how to stop being a Christian codependent. #codependency #helpingothers #christianboundaries 

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When It Isn't Yes, It's No

Do you have trouble making decisions? Do you doubt all your decisions after you make them? Do you need guidance to help you know what to do when you are indecisive?  There is a simple solution. Watch this video to find out what it is. #decisionmaking #christianrelationships 

 

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When Narcissistic Parents Become Narcissistic Grandparents

Narcissistic parents are extremely difficult to deal with and cause lots of toxicity in your relationship. Once you have that figured out, you realize that they are now narcissistic grandparents of your children and it becomes even more complicated to manage. Watch this video to get some tips on how to deal with your narcissistic parents now that they are your children's narcissistic grandparents. #DysfunctionalRelationship #NarcissisticParents #ChristianBoundaries

 

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My Core Addiction is Codependency--Not Alcoholism

Liz Woolley grew up in an alcoholic broken home. Although she struggled with her own alcoholism and two dysfunctional relationships with addicts, she recognized after two failed marriages and multiple serious relationships that her core addiction was codependency. She shares her story hoping that others will recognize the roots of their relationship failures and why they lose themselves in their relationships. Liz shares the hope that is available through Twelve Step programs for codependency recovery and addiction recovery.

#Christiancodependency #dysfunctionalrelationship #codependencyrecovery #understandingrelationships #alcoholism
 
 
Codependency Anonymous:  https://coda.org/
 
Alcoholics Anonymous:  https://www.aa.org/
 
Al-Anon Family Groups: https://al-anon.org/
 
Online Gamers Anonymous, Olg-Anon and Liz's website: https://www.olganon.org/home
 
"Surviving the Puzzle of My Life":  https://a.co/d/5dr0enb

 

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