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Codependent Slips

Codependents have slips just like addicts do. Codependent slips aren't good for you or your relationships. You need to learn how to recognize when you are slipping back into unhealthy behavior so you can stop before you do things you regret. #codependency #toxicrelationship #dysfunctionalrelationship

 

 

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Toxic Relationships: What Is DARVO?

Toxic relationships are dysfunctional relationships. Narcissistic and manipulative people don't want to hear your concerns. They won't take responsibility for their part in the problems. They use strategies to keep from being accountable, and one of those is the subject of this video. 

What is DARVO? Something people do to prevent you from being heard. Find out what it is so you can recognize when it is being used against you. You need to know so it doesn't work.  Watch the video to learn about DARVO. 
#toxicrelationships   #dysfunctionalrelationship  #darvo  #manipulation #narcissist  

 

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Navigating Old Age Estranged from Your Children

Navigating old age estranged from your children is a scary thought for some. One of my subscribers asked me to make a video on this topic. Watch it for some ideas on how to prepare for old age estranged from your children or if you don't have children. #healthyrelationship #planing #oldage

 

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Relationship Safety Ultimately Comes Down to You

Relationship safety involves both people being trustworthy, honest, dependable, and emotionally healthy. A safe person doesn't cause harm, but an unsafe person causes harm by their words and actions.  

When you are in an abusive, toxic, and/or dysfunctional relationship, you aren't safe. You can set boundaries to try to get changes you need to feel safe, but you cannot depend on the other person. Relationship safety ultimately comes down to you.  

#toxicrelationships  #PersonalSafety #AbusiveRelationships #dysfunctionalrelationship  

 

 

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I Lost My Daughter to Cancer: What to Say and What Not to Say to Grieving Loved Ones

Jan Tamble is a leader of the Orange County, California, chapter of Umbrella Ministries, whose purpose is reaching out to the hurts and hearts of mothers who have experienced the loss of a child.

 

Jan shares her story of losing her daughter, Megan, twelve years ago. Along with sharing her grief journey, she discusses the things that people do that hurt and help. When they don't understand how to respond to a person's grief, they do things that cause pain, even though their intentions are to help. 

 

This emotional and touching podcast will impact listeners who have lost a loved one by validating their pain, and those who know them by providing insight into how to help.    

 

Umbrella Ministries: https://www.umbrellaministries.com/

 

Umbrella Ministries Facebook: Umbrella Ministries Grief Support

 

Orange County Chapter: https://umbrellaministriesocla.blogspot.com/

 

GriefShare: GriefShare.org

 

Don't Letter: Click HERE to download a copy of the letter with suggestions of what to do and not do. https://karladowningresources.wordpress.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/06/dont-letter.pdf

 

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How to Stop Manipulating People

This video shows you how to stop manipulating people. It is possible to change when you are motivated to do it. Watch this video to learn how to stop manipulating people. #manipulation #StopManipulation #ManipulationMotives #HealthyRelationship

 

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Why Do You Manipulate People?

Why do you manipulate people? You need to know if you want to stop doing it. Wanting to change is the first step to being able to stop manipulating people but you also need to know why so you understand what drives the behavior. This video will show you why you manipulate people. #manipulation #ManipulationMotives #HealthyRelationship

 

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What Is the Goal of Conflict Resolution?

What is the goal of conflict resolution? Most people would answer, "To resolve conflict." That is one of the goals, but it isn't the most important one. There is one that is more important, and if people keep it at the forefront of their minds, it will change the way they interact. Dysfunctional relationships don't do this, but healthy relationships do. Watch this video to find out what it is so you can improve your skills. #conflictresolution  #dysfunctionalrelationship  #healthyrelationship

 

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Interview: I Forgave the Unforgivable

Rose Larson has been through things none of us want to go through: betrayal, divorce, a son's suicide, and another son's addiction and incarceration. She describes what she encountered and how God enabled her to rise above the pain and forgive the unforgivable. Forgiveness, especially for the big life-changing things, isn't easy to do, and yet, it is possible.     

 

Hearing others' stories gives us a new perspective of our own. We learn from others experience, strength, and hope. One of the places Rose found support was through Alcoholics Anonymous and Al-Anon. You will also hear how those programs helped her and the tools they offer. Listen to Rose's unbelievable journey where she forgave the unforgivable.

 

Helpful Links: 

 

Alcoholics Anonymous:https://www.aa.org/

Al-Anon Family Groups:https://al-anon.org/

Celebrate Recovery: https://celebraterecovery.com/

 

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Zero Tolerance for Boundary Violations

Zero tolerance for boundary violations is the only way to ensure that you won't continue to encounter the same problems in the future.  When you don't enforce consequences when your line is crossed, you go through a predictable process that requires you to start all over again. Watch this video to understand what you have to do to get strong enough to have a zero tolerance for boundary violations. #christianboundaries  #zerotolerance  #setboundaries 

 

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