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When Actions Don't Match Promises: What Do You Do?

There are many types of dysfunctional relationship dilemmas. One of them is how to handle people when actions don't match promises. What do you do? Should you continue to be friends with them? Should you give them the benefit of the doubt and take their promises as the truth? Or, should you make decisions based on the relationship history? It is important when dealing with dysfunction to have a toolbox of tips and truths to apply. There is a principle that applies in this situation. Watch this video to find out what that is... #christianrelationshipadvice #dysfunctionalrelationship #relationshipproblems

 

 

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Consider Human Nature Psychology When Setting Boundaries

You should consider human nature psychology when setting boundaries. Doing so will enable you to predict how people will respond to your weak or strong boundaries by what people typically do in similar situations. It isn't hard to predict because we are all basically the same when we are acting according to our human nature. Find out what aspects of human nature predict responses to boundaries. #humannaturepsychology #Christianboundaries #Christianboundarysetting

 

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Christian Codependency: Keeping Promises to Yourself

If you struggle with Christian codependency, you are likely a highly loyal person to everyone in your life, but have you ever thought about keeping promises to yourself? Self-care is neglected by codependents. You must get to where you know you are equally and often more important than others because you are the one who must make sure you are functioning well. Making and keeping promises to yourself is a part of codependent recovery. #dysfunctionalrelationship #christiancodependency #selfcare #selfimprovement

 

 

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Detaching from Blamers

People who refuse to take responsibility for their own choices blame them on others. Detaching from blamers is the only thing that will enable you to not be drawn into their game. If you don't detach, you will become defensive and argue with the person to deny responsibility. You may also struggle with deep guilt and question yourself as you battle with the possibility that you are to blame. Watch this video to put an end to this by detaching from blamers. #detachment #blamers #dysfunctionalrelationship 

 

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Using Forgiveness Manipulatively

Do you recognize when someone is using forgiveness manipulatively in your relationship? Do you know the difference between genuine repentance and false repentance? Can you recognize when the Bible is being used to spiritually bypass and spiritually abuse you? You need to identify this type of manipulation to respond appropriately. This is especially important when the offender is not taking responsibility and is not repentant. Watch this video to learn how to recognize when someone is using forgiveness manipulatively. #manipulativeforgiveness #forgiveness #manipulation #christianrelationshipadvice #dysfunctionalrelationship

 

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I Found My Voice at 60

Laura was over 60 years old and had been married for almost 40 years when she came to my class for women in difficult marriages. Depressed, lonely, frustrated, unhappy, and without hope that her husband would and could change, she embraced the 10 Principles to better her own life in any way possible. To her surprise, not only did she change, but so did her husband. If you are in an unhappy marriage, without hope, frustrated, and depressed, listen to Laura's story to find out what she did to get change. #changeyourself #difficultmarriage #christianrelationships

 

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How to Respond to a Silent Treatment

Silent treatments are destructive and painful. Living with someone who refuses to engage or respond to you for an extended period isn't easy. It feels like you have no choice but to endure, but is that true? It might surprise you to know that there you have options. You can choose how to respond to a silent treatment. There are ways to respond to a silent treatment that can it better for you and ways that can make it worse for you. Watch this video to find out what those are.#boundaries #christianrelationshipadvice #silenttreatment #toxicrelationships

 

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Why Do Addicts and Dysfunctional People Lie?

Why do addicts and dysfunctional lie? There are multiple reasons that you need to understand if you want to deal with them appropriately. The lies harm your relationship and put you in the difficult position of having to decide whether you believe them or not. This puts you in the position of being the one at fault for not believing them. Watch this video to understand why addicts and dysfunctional people lie to empower you in the relationship. #dysfunctionalrelationship #lies #understandingrelationships #christianrelationships 

 

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Should You Stay or Should You Go? When to Leave a Relationship

Should you stay or should you go? When to leave a relationship is always a difficult decision that only you can make. This video provides guidelines for you to consider. While no one can tell you that you have to leave or have to stay in a toxic family relationship, toxic job, or toxic marriage, it is helpful to have factors to weigh as you process that decision. #christianboundaries#christianrelationshipadvice#toxicrelationships

 

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Guidelines for Grandparents with Their Grandchildren

Grandparents are navigating a different relationship with their children and in-laws than they had as parents. These guidelines for grandparents with their grandchildren will give you the knowledge you need to avoid mistakes that can cause relationship problems. Watch this video to learn what those boundaries are so you don't violate them. #boundaries #grandparenting #understandingrelationships

 

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