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Why Do Dysfunctional Toxic People Act That Way?

Some people manipulate, abuse, lie, blame, gaslight, cheat, and betray. Do you wonder why dysfunctional toxic people act that way? It is reasonable to ask because a healthy person wouldn't do these things. There are several reasons, but this video focuses on one that we often forget to mention. Understanding why people do what they do is important because we must respond and what we think will influence our actions. #toxicrelationship #dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicpeople 

 

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I Divorced My Emotionally and Spiritually Abusive Husband

Wendy divorced her emotionally and spiritually abusive husband after a thirty-five-year marriage and five-year separation. She describes how she navigated the painful but necessary grief process. She also explains how she is discovering who she is, the boundaries she needs with her ex-husband, and the new life open to her. Divorce is a painful experience with many challenges to overcome. Wendy offers hope to anyone contemplating divorce, currently going through a divorce, or divorced but still hurting. This is part 2. Part 1 of the interview will be linked at the end of this video.  #weaponizedscripture #spiritualabuse #toxicrelationship #gaslighting #healingfromdivorce

 

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Functional Dysfunctional Holidays

If you have a dysfunctional family, then you will have a dysfunctional holiday. You cannot change them, but you can change what you do to make your holiday more functional. Watch this video to see how to do that. #dysfunctionalrelationship #dysfunctionalholidays #healthyholidays #detaching

 

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Dysfunctional Family Holiday Dynamics

Find out how to deal with your dysfunctional family dynamics during the holidays in a healthy way that takes care of yourself!! #dysfunctionalrelationship #familydysfunction #dysfunctionalholiday #healthyholidays

 

 

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Empowered By Choice in Dysfunctional Relationships

You can be empowered by choice in dysfunctional relationships. It doesn't feel that way. It feels like you are stuck and victimized, but in reality, you are never without the opportunity to take back your power and choose for yourself. Knowing this and acting on it, can change your life. Watch this video to learn how to apply this truth of empowered by choice to your dysfunctional relationship. #attitude #empoweryourself #choices #dysfunctionalrelationship 

 

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Reactive Abuse Is Not Abuse

What is reactive abuse? It is when the abuse victim snaps from the pressure, pain, punishment, control, and crazymaking and does something to the abuser that could be labeled as abusive. The victim feels bad about the reaction and the abuser blames the victim. The victim's reaction does not qualify as abuse. It is a totally different behavior. Watch this video to learn more. #crazymakers #reactiveabuse #dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicrelationship 

 

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How You Feel With a Toxic vs a Healthy Person

It isn't always easy to identify dysfunctional dynamics in a relationship. You can't diagnose people and figure out all the complex behavior that doesn't make sense. You can't always be unbiased in how you view them. There is something you can focus on: how you feel with a toxic vs a healthy person. Unhealthy people negatively impact our bodies, emotions, and spirit. We often ignore these signs but if we want insight, it is important to pay attention. Ask yourself: how do you feel with a toxic vs a healthy person. You will be surprised at what you find out. #dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicrelationship #healthyrelationships #christianrelationships

 

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My Husband Weaponized Scripture to Emotionally and Spiritually Abuse Me

Even though they looked perfect from the outside to everyone who knew them and held a prominent position in the community, life within their home was anything but perfect. Wendy describes her journey in an emotionally and spiritually abusive marriage where her husband weaponized scripture. Truth was mixed with untruth increasing the confusion and self-doubt. Anyone who has been gaslit, manipulated, abused. or controlled will identify with Wendy's experience of doubting herself and feeling confused enough to accept the blame and question her sanity. It took thirty-five years for Wendy to get the necessary clarity to see the dynamics for what they were and the strength to initiate a separation. #weaponizedscripture #spiritualabuse #toxicrelationship #gaslighting

 

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How Not to Be Double-Minded When Making Decisions as a Christian

As Christians, we want to know God's will for our lives. When we make decisions, we seek guidance that we can trust. We get it from numerous sources: the Bible, pastors, things we hear, things we read, social media posts, friends, counselors, and more. 

The problem is that we often become double-minded because we consider everything we hear and see as equal. God's wisdom is available for all who seek it, as James 1:5-6 says, but you will become confused if you don't hear it in the right frame of mind.

Watch this video to get clarity on your decision-making as a Christian...

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Detaching in Relationships: Observe to Learn

Detaching in relationships is necessary to observe to learn the dysfunctional family dynamics you are dealing with. It is easy to be so entangled with your family that you cannot see what is going on. To be able to interact differently, you have to identify what you typically do and what the other people do. Detaching in the relationships by observing to learn is what you need to do.  #detachment #detachinlove #familydysfunction 

 

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