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Why Do Addicts and Dysfunctional People Lie?

Why do addicts and dysfunctional lie? There are multiple reasons that you need to understand if you want to deal with them appropriately. The lies harm your relationship and put you in the difficult position of having to decide whether you believe them or not. This puts you in the position of being the one at fault for not believing them. Watch this video to understand why addicts and dysfunctional people lie to empower you in the relationship. #dysfunctionalrelationship #lies #understandingrelationships #christianrelationships 

 

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Should You Stay or Should You Go? When to Leave a Relationship

Should you stay or should you go? When to leave a relationship is always a difficult decision that only you can make. This video provides guidelines for you to consider. While no one can tell you that you have to leave or have to stay in a toxic family relationship, toxic job, or toxic marriage, it is helpful to have factors to weigh as you process that decision. #christianboundaries#christianrelationshipadvice#toxicrelationships

 

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Guidelines for Grandparents with Their Grandchildren

Grandparents are navigating a different relationship with their children and in-laws than they had as parents. These guidelines for grandparents with their grandchildren will give you the knowledge you need to avoid mistakes that can cause relationship problems. Watch this video to learn what those boundaries are so you don't violate them. #boundaries #grandparenting #understandingrelationships

 

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How to Listen to Your Adult Child's Hurt From You

Parenting is a difficult job. We do it because we love our children. None of us plan to hurt them. It never occurs to us that our children will end up criticizing our efforts and harboring resentments. But when they do, we must handle it the right way. Do you know how to listen to your adult child's hurt from you? If you don't, you will likely make things worse by reacting the wrong way. It is never easy to hear your adult child's perceptions of the things you've done to cause pain and hurt--even when you want to listen. It is easy to feel fearful and attacked and get defensive, but this guarantees there won't be any healing. Watch this video to prepare yourself to listen to your adult child's hurt from you. #healing #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyrelationships 

 

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I Live with Chronic Illness

According to the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services Office on Women's Health, autoimmune diseases affect more than 23.5 million people in the U.S. and are more common in women than in men. Wendy shares her story of what it is like to live with her chronic illnesses, rheumatoid arthritis and fibromyalgia. She openly shares the impact on her life, marriage, and mental health along with the lessons she has learned to cope that give her hope. Whether you have a chronic illness, are a caregiver for someone who does, or simply want to learn more about how chronic illness impacts so many of those around you, you will benefit from listening to Wendy's courageous story.

 

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Dealing with Boundary Busters

Dealing with boundary busters isn't easy unless you have strong boundaries and are aware of their tactics. They can't make your boundaries ineffective if you understand how to set boundaries that cannot be busted. Watch this video to learn how to do that. #boundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #christianboundaries #boundarybuster

 

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Dealing with People Who Always Have to Be Right

Dealing with people who always have to be right isn't easy. There isn't any way to convince them that you have a valid different opinion and it can make you livid to let them get away with thinking you agree with them. So what do you do with them? Watch this video to find out. #dysfunctionalrelationship #understandingrelationships #greyrock #boundaries #christianboundaries

 

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Fear of Repercussions When Speaking Your Truth and Setting Boundaries

Fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries is a natural feeling when you are in a dysfunctional relationship. It makes sense to be worried about a backlash when you know you are likely to get one that is uncomfortable or even abusive. Difficult, toxic, and dysfunctional people do not like it when you stand up to them. They will do whatever they have to so you will back down from your boundary and abandon your truth. Watch this video to learn how to deal with the fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries so you can stand strong.#speakingtruth #settingboundaries #christianboundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship 

 

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How to Be Emotionally Intelligent and Teach Your Children to Be Emotionally Intelligent

In this presentation, Karla Downing provides the steps that are necessary to intelligently handle emotions. She challenges the beliefs we have about feelings, especially in the Church, and helps the listener to view emotions simply and practically. She also addresses how to teach your children to be emotionally intelligent. This is an invaluable talk that can make profound changes in your life, your family, and your marriage. Listen to it and talk about it to challenge your beliefs about emotions.     

 

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Christian Codependency: Should You Help or Not When Someone Asks?

Do you struggle with Christian codependency? Are you a people pleaser? Do you feel guilty when you say no? If you said yes because you believe God wants you to say yes, you need to know how to make a healthy decision as to whether you should help or not when someone asks. Watch this video to learn how to stop being a Christian codependent. #codependency #helpingothers #christianboundaries 

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