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How Should Christians Deal with Financial Adversity?

How should Christians deal with financial adversity? You may consider this to be an unnecessary question to ask or answer. It might surprise you that many people have an unbalanced view of that subject and it can cause them problems. Watch this video to get an answer to that important question. #FinancialAdversity #ChristianFinance #relationshipdynamics #askingforhelp 

 

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How to Be a Good Mother-In-Law to Your Daughter-in-Law

Do you want to know how to be a good mother-in-law to your daughter-in-law? There are specific things you can do and cannot do. Some of them will be easier for you than others. Some of them will be more difficult based on your needs and personality. Some will depend on the personality of your daughter-in-law. Watch this video to do your part to build a good relationship with your daughter-in-law. #christianrelationshipadvice #relationshipissues #healthyrelationships #christianboundaries

 

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Navigating Strong Differences of Opinion

If you have family members or friends with different opinions than you on political or religious views, you have probably had difficult discussions. These can cause relationship strain or even estrangement. There are specific things you can do to navigate strong differences of opinion in your relationships. #differenceofopinion #christianrelationshipadvice #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyrelationships

 

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Should You Explain or Not Explain?

We tend to over-explain ourselves to difficult people. It's almost as if we want their approval so we know they aren't upset with us. So what should you do? Should you explain or not explain your boundary? Should you explain or not explain the reason for the decision you made? The answer is: It depends. You need to figure out what is best for you in the specific situation with that person. There are times you should explain yourself and times you should not. To deal with dysfunctional people, you need to know principles to apply to choose the right option. Watch this video to find out which principles help you decide should you explain or not explain? #difficultrelationships #overexplaining #boundaries #christianboundaries

 

 

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I Overcame the Shame of Four Divorces

After going through her fourth divorce, Marquette experienced profound shame and hopelessness. She overcame the shame by learning the lessons she needed to learn from each one. Marquette shares these lessons to help other women going through separation and divorce. 

Marquette Walker is an internationally known and respected minister, speaker, and the of author "Divorced, But Not Defeated." She has fearlessly spearheaded the Winning Women Movement, where she empowers women to shamelessly overcome the stigma of multiple marriages, and restore their hope for healed and healthy marriages. 

Marquette is happily married to her husband Gabe Walker, and they share a wonderful home and family in Morrison, North Carolina. #christianrelationshipadvice #difficultmarriage #dysfunctionalrelationship #christianhealing #christiandivorce #marquettewalker #divorcehealing

 
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Spiritual Bypassing Examples

Spiritual bypassing harms the recipient by minimizing and shaming their pain rather than empathizing and supporting them. Many of these spiritual bypassing examples are also common Bible pat answers heard from church people when you share life problems. You have probably been the recipient of this harmful practice more than you realize, as it happens frequently.  Learn to identify what this is so you will not do it and to recognize when it is being done to you. #dysfunctionalrelationship #spiritualbypassing #toxicrelationship 

 

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Dysfunctional Dynamics: Dealing with Stonewalling

Stonewalling is one of many dysfunctional dynamics people deal with in their problem relationships. If you are wondering what it is, think of a stone wall. You can't push it or move it and it keeps you from moving forward. Stonewalling shuts down the possibility of resolving problems in your relationship. Watch this video to learn how you can deal with the dysfunctional dynamic of stonewalling. #stonewalling #boundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #dysfunctionalcommunication

 

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When Actions Don't Match Promises: What Do You Do?

There are many types of dysfunctional relationship dilemmas. One of them is how to handle people when actions don't match promises. What do you do? Should you continue to be friends with them? Should you give them the benefit of the doubt and take their promises as the truth? Or, should you make decisions based on the relationship history? It is important when dealing with dysfunction to have a toolbox of tips and truths to apply. There is a principle that applies in this situation. Watch this video to find out what that is... #christianrelationshipadvice #dysfunctionalrelationship #relationshipproblems

 

 

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Consider Human Nature Psychology When Setting Boundaries

You should consider human nature psychology when setting boundaries. Doing so will enable you to predict how people will respond to your weak or strong boundaries by what people typically do in similar situations. It isn't hard to predict because we are all basically the same when we are acting according to our human nature. Find out what aspects of human nature predict responses to boundaries. #humannaturepsychology #Christianboundaries #Christianboundarysetting

 

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Christian Codependency: Keeping Promises to Yourself

If you struggle with Christian codependency, you are likely a highly loyal person to everyone in your life, but have you ever thought about keeping promises to yourself? Self-care is neglected by codependents. You must get to where you know you are equally and often more important than others because you are the one who must make sure you are functioning well. Making and keeping promises to yourself is a part of codependent recovery. #dysfunctionalrelationship #christiancodependency #selfcare #selfimprovement

 

 

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