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Change My Relationship offers practical solutions based on biblical truths for all difficult relationships from Karla Downing, Marriage & Family Therapist.
Change My Relationship offers practical solutions based on biblical truths for all difficult relationships from Karla Downing, Marriage & Family Therapist.
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Monday Sep 09, 2024
I Found My Voice at 60
Monday Sep 09, 2024
Monday Sep 09, 2024

Thursday Sep 05, 2024
How to Respond to a Silent Treatment
Thursday Sep 05, 2024
Thursday Sep 05, 2024
Silent treatments are destructive and painful. Living with someone who refuses to engage or respond to you for an extended period isn't easy. It feels like you have no choice but to endure, but is that true? It might surprise you to know that there you have options. You can choose how to respond to a silent treatment. There are ways to respond to a silent treatment that can it better for you and ways that can make it worse for you. Watch this video to find out what those are.#boundaries #christianrelationshipadvice #silenttreatment #toxicrelationships
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Monday Sep 02, 2024
Why Do Addicts and Dysfunctional People Lie?
Monday Sep 02, 2024
Monday Sep 02, 2024
Why do addicts and dysfunctional lie? There are multiple reasons that you need to understand if you want to deal with them appropriately. The lies harm your relationship and put you in the difficult position of having to decide whether you believe them or not. This puts you in the position of being the one at fault for not believing them. Watch this video to understand why addicts and dysfunctional people lie to empower you in the relationship. #dysfunctionalrelationship #lies #understandingrelationships #christianrelationships
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Thursday Aug 29, 2024
Should You Stay or Should You Go? When to Leave a Relationship
Thursday Aug 29, 2024
Thursday Aug 29, 2024
Should you stay or should you go? When to leave a relationship is always a difficult decision that only you can make. This video provides guidelines for you to consider. While no one can tell you that you have to leave or have to stay in a toxic family relationship, toxic job, or toxic marriage, it is helpful to have factors to weigh as you process that decision. #christianboundaries#christianrelationshipadvice#toxicrelationships
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Watch this video on YouTube:https://youtu.be/wPX_UPy_aLA

Monday Aug 26, 2024
Guidelines for Grandparents with Their Grandchildren
Monday Aug 26, 2024
Monday Aug 26, 2024
Grandparents are navigating a different relationship with their children and in-laws than they had as parents. These guidelines for grandparents with their grandchildren will give you the knowledge you need to avoid mistakes that can cause relationship problems. Watch this video to learn what those boundaries are so you don't violate them. #boundaries #grandparenting #understandingrelationships
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Watch this video on YouTube:https://youtu.be/RDSE1peDx8I

Thursday Aug 22, 2024
How to Listen to Your Adult Child's Hurt From You
Thursday Aug 22, 2024
Thursday Aug 22, 2024
Parenting is a difficult job. We do it because we love our children. None of us plan to hurt them. It never occurs to us that our children will end up criticizing our efforts and harboring resentments. But when they do, we must handle it the right way. Do you know how to listen to your adult child's hurt from you? If you don't, you will likely make things worse by reacting the wrong way. It is never easy to hear your adult child's perceptions of the things you've done to cause pain and hurt--even when you want to listen. It is easy to feel fearful and attacked and get defensive, but this guarantees there won't be any healing. Watch this video to prepare yourself to listen to your adult child's hurt from you. #healing #dysfunctionalrelationship #healthyrelationships
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Watch this video on YouTube:https://youtu.be/TnTspEWpbH8

Monday Aug 19, 2024
I Live with Chronic Illness
Monday Aug 19, 2024
Monday Aug 19, 2024

Thursday Aug 15, 2024
Dealing with Boundary Busters
Thursday Aug 15, 2024
Thursday Aug 15, 2024
Dealing with boundary busters isn't easy unless you have strong boundaries and are aware of their tactics. They can't make your boundaries ineffective if you understand how to set boundaries that cannot be busted. Watch this video to learn how to do that. #boundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship #christianboundaries #boundarybuster
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Monday Aug 12, 2024
Dealing with People Who Always Have to Be Right
Monday Aug 12, 2024
Monday Aug 12, 2024
Dealing with people who always have to be right isn't easy. There isn't any way to convince them that you have a valid different opinion and it can make you livid to let them get away with thinking you agree with them. So what do you do with them? Watch this video to find out. #dysfunctionalrelationship #understandingrelationships #greyrock #boundaries #christianboundaries
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Thursday Aug 08, 2024
Fear of Repercussions When Speaking Your Truth and Setting Boundaries
Thursday Aug 08, 2024
Thursday Aug 08, 2024
Fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries is a natural feeling when you are in a dysfunctional relationship. It makes sense to be worried about a backlash when you know you are likely to get one that is uncomfortable or even abusive. Difficult, toxic, and dysfunctional people do not like it when you stand up to them. They will do whatever they have to so you will back down from your boundary and abandon your truth. Watch this video to learn how to deal with the fear of repercussions when speaking your truth and setting boundaries so you can stand strong.#speakingtruth #settingboundaries #christianboundaries #dysfunctionalrelationship
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