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Practicing Radical Acceptance

Practicing radical acceptance is a way of detaching and letting go of what you don't like all at once. It doesn't come naturally to most of us. What does come naturally is to get worked up and control what we don't like. Instead, radical acceptance has you do the opposite. Find out how to put it into practice.

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Counting the Cost of Confronting

Counting the cost of confronting is wise when you are dealing with dysfunctional family dynamics.  There is a time to confront and a time not to confront. You get to decide which it is depending on the person, the situation, and what is in your best interest. Watch this video to find out how you can make a wise decision.

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Emotionally Immature People

Emotionally immature people cause problems in relationships. You need to know how to recognize whether someone is mature or immature so you can make wise choices in response. Watch this video to learn how to identify whether a person is emotionally immature or emotionally mature.

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Can a Toxic Dysfunctional Person Be Saved?

Can a dysfunctional person be a born-again Christian? Many people who claim to be Christians are dysfunctional and toxic causing great harm to those they are in a relationship with. Those people are often confused about whether the dysfunctional person is saved and the answer matters.

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Action Boundaries

One of the reasons people say that they cannot set boundaries is that the other person won't respect them. They ignore them, challenge them, or violate them. They use manipulative tactics to get you to back down. Action boundaries don't depend on the other person's response. It is entirely up to you to decide what you will and won't do. They don't require anyone's permission or approval. You are the only one who matters.  Watch this video to learn how to use action boundaries.

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Scapegoated By My Family for Helping

Dysfunctional families pick a scapegoat to blame for everything that goes wrong. This woman's story is an example of how a family fails to take care of their own responsibilities, expects the scapegoat to take them all on, and then blames the scapegoat for everything that doesn't work. Scapegoating is an incredibly abusive, manipulative, and crazymaking role in a dysfunctional family that typically lasts for life. If you aren't sure whether you are a scapegoat or you know you are but can't make sense of the confusing messages, listen to this podcast.

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When to Use Imperative Boundaries

Typically, boundaries in relationships are you deciding what you will do and not do and not telling others what to do. This is because you cannot control what others do. However, there are times when you must use imperative boundaries. This podcast explains when to use imperative boundaries.

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How Much Is Required to Live at Peace with Everyone? (Romans 12:18)

Romans 12:18 says, "If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone" (NIV). What is required to live at peace with everyone? How much should you give up and give in?  Some people believe the answer is, "Everything." Listen to this podcast to find out how that answer isn't correct.

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A Different Sermon for People in Difficult Relationships

Have you ever sat in the sanctuary listening to a sermon and felt sad and confused? Have you ever applied the advice you heard and felt that things got worse? Anytime I listen to a pastor, I ask myself if it needs to be a different sermon for people in difficult relationships. Some things are said in church that contain solid biblical advice but when applied can actually do damage. Among others, Christian boundaries are often not mentioned. Watch this video to hear a different sermon with biblical advice for Christian relationships and Christian marriages that you can apply amid dysfunction.

 

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Victim Shaming Hurts Victims Even More

Victim shaming hurts victims on top of the hurt they have already endured. It shouldn't happen, but it often does even in the church and among Christians. Watch this video to find out the many ways victim shaming happens to ensure you aren't doing it. If you have been victim-shamed, you will find this video validating.

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