Change My Relationship

A Different Sermon for People in Difficult Relationships

Have you ever sat in the sanctuary listening to a sermon and felt sad and confused? Have you ever applied the advice you heard and felt that things got worse? Anytime I listen to a pastor, I ask myself if it needs to be a different sermon for people in difficult relationships. Some things are said in church that contain solid biblical advice but when applied can actually do damage. Among others, Christian boundaries are often not mentioned. Watch this video to hear a different sermon with biblical advice for Christian relationships and Christian marriages that you can apply amid dysfunction.

 

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Victim Shaming Hurts Victims Even More

Victim shaming hurts victims on top of the hurt they have already endured. It shouldn't happen, but it often does even in the church and among Christians. Watch this video to find out the many ways victim shaming happens to ensure you aren't doing it. If you have been victim-shamed, you will find this video validating.

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Weak, Healthy, or Rigid Boundaries

Do you have weak, healthy, or rigid boundaries?  Did you think that all boundaries were healthy? They can also be weak or rigid. The more you know about boundaries the healthier yours can be. Watch this video to learn about setting healthy boundaries in your relationships. 

#Boundaries #HealthyBoundaries #ChristianBoundaries

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Christian Toxic Positivity Isn't Positive

"Christian toxic positivity" is religious positivity that harms instead of helps. It has certain aspects that make it easy to identify. It also has some unique characteristics in the church since it uses spiritual beliefs and Bible verses to prove its validity. Watch this video to learn how to identify and correct Christian toxic positivity, because it isn't positive.

 

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Is Being Sinful an Excuse for Bad Behavior?

Is being sinful an excuse for bad behavior? Dysfunctional relationships have tons of unacceptable behavior that isn't acknowledged. It's not unusual to have people manipulate you by blaming you for their behavior. Sometimes, they apologize by confessing their sinful behavior to God, but is that enough? Can you expect a good apology, too? Watch this video to understand how narcissists, abusers, and other dysfunctional people use this Scriptural misunderstanding to manipulate you.

#dysfunctionalrelationship #toxicrelationship #scriptualmisunderstandings

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Detaching Simplified: Just Let Them

Detaching is one of my 10 Relationship-Changing Principles. I promise people that if they learn to detach, it will set them free from being emotionally, mentally, and relationally tied to the things people do. Detaching can seem difficult to grasp. That is why I like this way of describing detaching in a simplified but powerful way--Just let them. Instead of controlling what people do; offering your unwanted opinions; and getting upset when they don't do what you want, you just let them. Watch this video to find out how to "just let them" and experience freedom. 

#Detaching #ToxicRelationships 

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Is It Jealousy or Grief? Is It the Sin of Covetousness or Pain?

Jealousy or grief? The sin of covetousness or pain? When you feel a pang of jealousy over seeing someone who has something that you are grieving over, is it the sin of covetousness or pain? Is it normal to feel jealousy when you are grieving a loss? People often feel guilty when they experience envy when it isn't envy at all. Watch the video to find out what this scriptural misunderstanding is all about.

#grief #scripturalwisdom 

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A Reason Is Not an Excuse for Bad Behavior

A reason is not an excuse for bad behavior. When a person acts out or mistreats you, it is typical to ask why the person did it. You often search for a cause and then the confusion comes in and makes you wonder if it is okay to expect better behavior or set boundaries with consequences. This video explains why having a reason for bad behavior isn't an excuse for bad behavior.

#Boundaries #ChristianBoundaries #ToxicRelationship

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Boundaries for Me but Not for Thee

Boundaries for me but not for thee. This Christian relationship advice video exposes the hypocrisy of people who tell you that you cannot have boundaries when they have them for themselves. Becoming clear about this double standard will strengthen your resolve to stand up for yourself and set healthy boundaries in your dysfunctional relationships. Don't let toxic people tell you that you cannot set boundaries when they do. Christians can and should have boundaries in their relationships.

#Boundaries #HealthyBoundaries #ChristianBoundaries

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My Wife’s Detaching in Love Led to My Sexual Addiction Recovery

Matthew Riley, Development Director of Be Broken Ministries, offers a personal and engaging account of his recovery from sexual addiction as a result of his wife's detaching in love, as well as setting boundaries. Matthew is a former pastor and international worker. He has been married for 18 years to his wife Katherine and has four children ages 10 - 15 years old.  Be Broken helps individuals and families move from sexual brokenness to wholeness in Christ. Through workshops, small groups, online courses, and partner resources, they help men overcome pornography addiction and stop other unwanted sexual behaviors. They also help wives recover from betrayal trauma, as well as families walk in God's design for sexuality. #SexualAddictionRecovery #BoundariesInMarriage #HelpForWivesofSexAddicts #ChristianMarriageHelp #DetachingInLove #ChangeMyRelationship #RelationshipAdvice #SelfHelp  #SelfCare  #ChristianRelationships